Its Really Important To Realize That Everything
You Are Thinking Is What You Are Creating
I know this sounds a bit “airy fairy” but I guarantee that you are already talking to yourself in a negative way! What you say is affirming everything you are already living. The big challenge is to start to say and take action on what you want and not what you don’t want
Don’t be a “Party Pooper!”
Many people start throwing up all kinds of objections and problems for themselves even before they actually have happened. Its the perception that we have of our present. Remember many of the things that are happening presently are actually reaping the benefits or the results of past thoughts and actions. How can you change that?
How do I create a better environment?
When it comes to business, are we actually figuring out who we want to focus on? Where do they often gather? Try turning your objections into advantages. What is great about this? – instead of Why is this happening to me? Sometimes if we actually look at it we may be able to gain some great new perceptions about things that are happening in our life. And, sometimes it means to be willing to “clean out some of our closets.” In other words, being willing to give up some things that don’t serve us anymore.
Being willing to be uncomfortable!
Many people are afraid about being uncomfortable. But make sure you understand that anything new is going to be uncomfortable! There is a period of learning. We have to be willing to be in that state of uncomfortable in order to let ourselves learn what it takes to reach that level of competence. Remember the first day you got behind a wheel of a car, were you competent? No you were not. My mom used to accuse me of taking “square corners!” The key thing is that I didn’t stay in that level of uncompetence. I continued to practice and learn, and now when I get into my car, I don’t have to think about it.
Business and Personal Growth in anything is all about new habits!
Anything you are now doing with confidence started out as something you had to learn about. That is actually everything. We never even talked or walked, and if you think about it you now have hundreds, maybe even thousands of skills today because you went through a learning process. So lets go from Party Pooper to confident Entrepreneur by being willing to be uncomfortable and being in a learning mode.
Orin Woodward says there are three things we want to be: Hungry, Honable and Honorable.
These are all subjects in themselves, but briefly to be hungry means to be willing to learn and willing to be uncomfortable. That makes us go out and seek what is necessary to get where we want to be. We want more than where we are presently.
Honable, means to be willing to let our mentors, those we trust to help us mold ourselves to who we want to be. We can model the successful person we want to be. We are willing to trust. This is big, our society is very low in trust. In a book I am reading, “The Speed of Trust, by S Covey, when trust is low, business slows way down, it is bogged down because of lack of trust, no one get anything done, it all goes through a process and a contest.
And last honorable. Many people I am afraid, don’t even know what that word means. It is not a word of convenience. It means that you will do what you say. It may mean that you have to do something uncomfortable. If you believe that a “little cheat” is okay, then you are not being honorable. The most important thing to get here is, that this also will break down trust. So here is the bottom line, we want to be earning a good living and fulfilling our dreams, and in order to do that we have to change how we look at things. I gave you a lot to think about!
Let me know what you are thinking?
So what are your thoughts on this? I Love Comments!